Holding On

Marriage life is never without a problem... Just like any stages and faces of life, marriage life is as challenging or even more. It requires both parties to be patient and loving enough to withstand whatever crisis may arise.

The secret? Faith in God; the ultimate source of everybody's strength. Trials are but a grain of sand when offered to God. Its hard to be faithful to God when problems are at their peak but they are just trials to the relationships making it more lasting and meaningful.

Isnt it wonderful to surpass all the trials and still finding each other at their loving arms. It is important to stay positive and calm, focusing on solutions and avoid blaming each other. Each has their own responsibilities to keep each other uplifted during the seemingly endless trials.

Remember that God will never give anyone something that they won't be able to handle, so just HOLD ON and always remember your vows... "for better and for worse, til death do us part".

Love Before, Now and After

2 years ago, I met the man whom I'm going to say "yes, I do"; the man whom I'm going to spend my life with!

Life has become happier and more fulfilling since that time. It put meaning to my life realizing my purpose and my future vocation, that is to become a wife someday!

In a relationship, it is essential to look back at the humble beginnings... The simple hi's and smiles at each other's lips... how a simple stare could melt a heart at an instant... the simple chats of getting to know each other... the excitement of each new day brings... all because of the joy of being in-love!

At present, my husband and I enjoy reminiscing all the good old stuffs we have been together and it really helps a lot in keeping the relationship in harmony. Whenever we have a little argument, all we do is to look back and surely it softens every brick of walls in between us.

I love my husband now more than ever all because I loved him before and it will goes on forever.

Thank God for the gift of Love. He loved us FIRST!

When Love is Far

My husband and I had a long distance love affair before we got married. It was a challenging time for both of us for we made our best to overcome the trials and the struggles of being away from each other. And we did! It goes to show that having a long distance romance is possible. It can be win over through sincere love, optimism, hope, faith in God and most especially by trust.

Today, after 2 months of getting married we are still holding on to our vows and again away from each other for my husband needs to go back to his country working on my petition papers. Yes, we are again in a long distance love affair and yet getting stronger. For as long as we keep the faith and place God at the center of our relationship, nothing will be impossible. The heart can hear even the farthest beat of the heart it loves most. Faith is believing the unseen, feeling the love even in the absence of the other one and hoping beyond imagination.

In love, there is no distance far enough that the heart cannot feel.